Once you’ve ruled out the obvious reasons your baby could be crying (empty tummy, wet diaper, overdo nap) and your pediatrician doesn't think she’s sick, try these time-tested techniques to help clear the tears and make you both feel better.
1) Offer a swaddle:-
This snug wrap in a receiving blanket keeps your little bundle feeling secure. Experts think swaddling soothes babies because it creates a cozy, womb-like feeling. Many parents find swaddling helps babies settle down faster and sleep longer.
2) Encourage sucking:-
Babies often soothe themselves with nonnutritive sucking, which doesn't fill their tummies but does calm their nerves. If your baby is crying, help her find her thumb, fist or finger, or simply offer one of your own fingers. A pacifier also does the trick, but consider waiting until breastfeeding is well established before introducing one.
3) Try a front carrier or sling:-
Wearing your baby and walking around is a great way to soothe her. Babies enjoy the feeling of closeness and the rhythm of your steps. A carrier is also convenient, since your hands remain free for multitasking. Have your baby face your body in a front-pack carrier or a sling for the first three months when she needs the extra head support. You can also use a sling, which is particularly useful for on-the-go nursing and can convert to a side or back hold when your baby gets older.
4) Rock, sway or glide:-
Hold baby while you sit in a rocking chair or glider, or place her in a motorized baby swing or vibrating bouncy seat. Be sure to follow the manufacturer's safety instructions regarding the age and weight restrictions for these devices.
5) Turn on the white noise:-
Some babies calm down to rhythmic whooshing sounds, which may remind them of the womb. Ones to try: a vacuum cleaner, hair dryer or fan. You also can invest in a white-noise machine or try shushing your baby with "Shhhhhh…shhhhhh" sounds.
6) Sing a song:-
Your baby has no idea whether you sing off-key or with perfect pitch. What she does know is that you’re showering her with song — and love. The next time she's cranky, sing a classic lullaby, a cheesy '80s power ballad or whatever tune you like.
7) Get wet:-
If your baby tends to mellow out at bathtime, fill up the tub with warm water, and make it a regular part of her calming routine.
8) Give a massage:-
Massaging your baby can be a relaxing ritual for both of you, and it’s a great way to calm your little one's cries. You can experiment with lotion or special baby massage oils, though neither is necessary. Use a gentle touch that’s firm but not ticklish. (Just be receptive to your baby's cues, as some little ones may find massage overwhelming.)
9) Try the “colic carry.”:-
Sometimes when your baby is crying inconsolably, what she needs is some pressure on her tummy — or what’s known as the "colic carry” — to help relieve gas and colic: Lay your baby on her tummy on your forearm, cradling her head in your hand and use your other hand to stabilize her and rub her back. Or lay her on her back and gently “bicycle pump” her knees up to her tummy for 10 seconds, then release and repeat.
10) Head outside:-
The motion may be all she needs to calm right down, plus a change of scene can work wonders both for cranky babies and their bedraggled parents. The light, air and temperature, plus new sights, sounds and smells will improve everyone’s mood.
Finally, Try to be patient. Keeping your baby safe is the most important thing you can do. It is normal to feel upset, frustrated, or even angry, but it is important to keep your behavior under control. Remember, it is never safe to shake, throw, hit, slam, or jerk any child—and it never solves the problem!